Lucky Number Se7en

hey ppl!..sorry for the late post..anyway IM IN THE HOSPITAL DOIN THIS

I am totally in love with her, i am sure. never felt the feelings i feel for her about anyone else.We communicate very well and we spend time together.we beleve in each other that no one can break our trust.I promise i will never hurt her and i'll make her happy always i promise.

This is for you

When i look into your eyes
your the only one i need in my life
we've been through so much together
and i feel like I've known you forever

your the only one for me
i love you more than you'd ever know or see
i get a big rush when I'm with you
& i hope you feel the way that i do

from me: clement

so, lets get straight to the point!

Love Relationships
As you can see, some chemical reactions make it possible for us to find love attractions, but once the initial attraction is set into motion, how can we parlay that magnetism into love relationships? Mere chemistry isn't enough to bond two people together for a life time. Lasting love relationships require something far more tangible.

Respect
Respect is a crucial part of any love relationship. If your partner isn't someone you can admire for his/her values, morals, and conduct, how can you truly say you are in love? Respect must also be a two-way street. It's very hard to feel loved and give real love in return if your partner is disrespectful towards you and your self-esteem is under siege.

Honesty
A lack of honesty can be a real deal breaker for love relationships. If one partner can't count on the other to be truthful about his/her feelings, words, actions, or whereabouts, respect dies and love soon follows. Honesty, couched in sensitivity, is necessary for any relationship to remain healthy.

Opening yourself
Opening yourself to a relationship so fully that you actually lose your mind is a dangerous, scary and exhilarating thing. It can be wonderful. But passion isn't enough. There comes a time when that bright passion that carried you along fades a little. Sometimes, it just vanishes. Where are you then? If all that your relationship consisted of was big passionate moments, you might start to feel differently. Passion doesn't have to be about big moments, like making love on a joyride. Passion can simply come when you give your SO (signification other) a backrub when they're tired without asking.

Selflessness
Love relationships sometimes require putting your partner's needs before your own, especially when it's not easy to do so. Simple consideration for your partner's feelings and a little compromise now and then can go a long way toward keeping love intact.

Communication
Communication is another one of the key elements of a successful relationship. You not only need to express yourself honestly and respectfully, you have to be able to really listen to what your partner is saying to you too. When you begin to tune each other out, trouble isn't far behind.

If you work to keep these elements a vital part of your lives together, your relationship has a much greater chance for survival.

Keeping Love Fresh
It's good to finally reach the comfort zone with your partner where you no longer have to worry about how you look at every moment of the day. It's okay if you don't feel like being witty and entertaining 24/7. Your partner doesn't want to have to be "on" every moment either.

However, there is a difference between comfort and complacency. Complacency is the first step toward apathy. When you no longer put the effort into making yourself attractive to your partner, how long can you expect your partner to remain interested? You both have to care enough about the relationship to put in some extra effort from time to time.

Why not:

-Surprise your partner with a romantic lunch.
-Get a hair cut and a facial. Spruce up and remind your partner why he/she foundyou attractive in the first place.
-Leave love notes where they can be found throughout the day: on the medicine cabinet, under the bed pillow, in a box of his/her favorite breakfast cereal. Such an easy thing to do, but the gesture is huge.
-Rent your partner's favorite romantic movie and share a bottle of wine.
-Take an impromptu drive in the country on a beautiful day.
-Go back to bed and snuggle on a rainy day.
-Hold hands in public again.
None of these things are difficult to do, and yet they could mean so much to your relationship. [edit]Conclusion
Love is a gift that requires a great deal of care and nurturing in order to thrive. If you're lucky enough to be in a love relationship, don't take it for granted.

posted by clement
reference:http://dating.lovetoknow.com/Love_Relationships
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